why do we look for ourselves in the woman or man that we love? This question really shook me up this week because I realised that I have always searched for my true reflection in the eyes of the "latest squeeze".It's really sad to realise how sad your dependency is on others. To awaken to that fact that you rely on others to determine your sense of self........... and that is a real tragedy
I have recently came across a guy who I felt matched me in the best possible way the whole ying-to-yang thing but somehow God, the universe etc ultimately has the final say and it was a negative on that relationship. Part of life's many trials and tribulations that we as a human beings have to master and overcome in order to grow as spiritual beings.To wrestle with the knowledge that life isn't in our hands as much as we may propel ourselves to play devils advocate there is a greater mastermind shuffling the deck of cards.Its a hard pill to swallow but it does ease the pain once you aknowledge its power.
At times we need to put our egos aside and let the chips fall where they may to try and micro manage life is futile.
this post is dedicated to: a love lost and beautiful new memories......I believe when the time is perfect Our paths will cross but I think its better If I know myself before I get to know you
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